{"id":5790,"date":"2021-06-26T11:31:46","date_gmt":"2021-06-26T09:31:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.g-wie-gerry.de\/?p=5790"},"modified":"2025-12-13T23:56:44","modified_gmt":"2025-12-13T22:56:44","slug":"gerry-365-177-26-06-polywoche-6-was-sagt-dein-mann-deine-frau-dazu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/gerry-365-177-26-06-polywoche-6-was-sagt-dein-mann-deine-frau-dazu\/","title":{"rendered":"Gerry 365 #177: 26.06. \u2013 PolyWoche: #6 &#8211; was sagt dein Mann \/ deine Frau dazu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-cyan-bluish-gray-color has-text-color\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/DG365-177\">Click here for english version<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gerry-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3071\" width=\"185\" height=\"185\" srcset=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gerry-1.png 1000w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gerry-1-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gerry-1-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/gerry-1-768x768.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 185px) 100vw, 185px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">V<\/span>ermutlich einer der Fragen, die uns am meisten gestellt wird. Und man m\u00f6chte am Liebsten darauf antworten \u00bbWas geht dich dass denn an? Hast du kein eigenes Leben, welches du hinterfragen kannst?\u00ab, aber man ist ja nett. Kl\u00e4rt die Leute auf, dass man viele Gespr\u00e4che gef\u00fchrt hat und der Partner\/die Partnerin damit einverstanden ist.<br>Aber egal ob man es erkl\u00e4rt oder nicht, gibt es Menschen, bei denen pl\u00f6tzlich irgendeine Leitung durchknallt und sie dann Vermutungen anstellen. Wer aktiv meine Blogs verfolgt, wei\u00df dass mir das passiert ist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ich w\u00fcsste nicht, wie verletzt Zino wegen dieser \u00bbGeschichte\u00ab w\u00e4re. Das ich damit andere verletzen w\u00fcrde. Es wird bestimmt nicht jeden polyamor-empfindenden betreffen, aber der ein oder andere hat sicher schon Erfahrungen damit gemacht.<br>Das Ding ist, dass diese Menschen oft gar keine R\u00fccksprache mit dem Partner halten. Sie interpretieren ihre eigenen Gef\u00fchle, die sie theoretisch h\u00e4tten, auf andere und das geht m. E. gar nicht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Leider sind sie auch unbelehrbar. Selbst wenn der Partner dann einschreitet, dass er solche Empfindungen gar nicht hat, wie z. B. verletzt sein, wird weiterhin drauf bestanden. Oder viele glauben generell nicht, dass der Partner damit einverstanden ist, und fragen nicht mal.<br>Generell sollten alle Menschen einfach mal ernst nehmen, was wir sagen und zu sagen haben. Wenn wir sagen unsere Partner sind fine damit, dann sollte das akzeptiert werden. Denn das \u00bbKonzept\u00ab der Polyamorie basiert auf Offenheit. W\u00e4re diese Offenheit nicht bei allen Beteiligten vorhanden, w\u00fcrde es nicht funktionieren und Polyamor-Empfindende m\u00fcssten sich weiter verstecken. Nur um nicht das zu verlieren, was sie lieben.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gerry<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Click here for english version Vermutlich einer der Fragen, die uns am meisten gestellt wird. 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