{"id":281,"date":"2018-05-29T17:28:13","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T15:28:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/?p=281"},"modified":"2025-12-13T23:57:06","modified_gmt":"2025-12-13T22:57:06","slug":"lange-ruhe-und-doch-kein-fortschritt-oder-doch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/lange-ruhe-und-doch-kein-fortschritt-oder-doch\/","title":{"rendered":"Lange Ruhe und doch kein Fortschritt. Oder doch?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hallo meine Welpen,
\nmein letzter Blog<\/a> ist nun nahezu zwei Monate her. Und in der Zeit hat sich, bzgl. des Petplays einiges getan.
\nMein damaliger Wuffelpartner geh\u00f6rt nicht mehr zu meinem Hundeleben. Ein goldener K\u00e4fig ist kurzweilig angenehm, wird aber auf dauer unertr\u00e4glich. Das habe ich sehr schnell gelernt.
\nEs wurden viele, auch verletzende, Worte geschrieben und man begann sich nicht mehr zu beachten. Die eine Seite versuchte eine Illusion zu errichten, w\u00e4hrend die andere ihr Leben weiterlebte und neues kennen lernte. Und wie ich neues kennen lernen sollte.
\n\"\"Beim Versuch die Freundschaft zu kitten, wurde mir und Finn (mein bester Freund) bewusst, dass wir eventuell doch schon mehr waren als nur Freunde. Und so kam es, dass wir nun ein Paar sind. Und es f\u00fchlt sich gut an, obwohl wir uns ewig dagegen gewehrt haben.
\nUnd wir passen in vielerlei Hinsicht zusammen. Das haben wir allerdings auch in acht Jahren Freundschaft bereits festgestellt. Klar haben wir auch unsere Macken die der andere manchmal seltsam findet. Aber wir kommen damit klar.
\nUns besch\u00e4ftigt immer noch der Umstand, wie wir zusammen gekommen sind. Mein ehem. Wuffelpartner tr\u00e4gt einen ma\u00dfgeblichen Teil dazu bei. Nicht unbedingt im positiven Sinne, aber dennoch bin ich ihm irgendwie dankbar. Auf jedem Fall bin ich nun gl\u00fccklich, da Wuffel und Mensch nun einen tollen Partner haben, der beiden Seiten mehr wie alles andere bedeutet.
\n 
\nKurz bevor es jedoch zu dieser Beziehung kam, habe ich angefangen ein kleines Rudel<\/a> zu gr\u00fcnden. Wir haben echt \"\"tolle Wuffel daf\u00fcr gefunden.
\nMein Lebensgef\u00e4hrte Finn der immer f\u00fcr mich da ist.
\nDen niedlichen, manchmal etwas \u00fcberdrehten Gormi.
\nDie s\u00fc\u00dfe Nala die aber durchaus auch mal laut bellen kann.
\nDie Megaflauschkugel Nebaka aka Akeban. Soooo Flauschig.
\nUnd den h\u00fcbschen Fitch der manchmal un\u00fcberlegt handelt.
\nSie alle sind einzigartig und ich bin sehr stolz, dass sie mein Rudel gew\u00e4hlt haben und viel Spa\u00df miteinander haben. Noch toller finde ich, dass sie alle f\u00fcreinander da sind, wenn es einem mal nicht so gut geht und jemanden braucht, bei dem er sich aufregen kann. Das ist fantastisch.
\nIhr merkt, dass die letzten Monate durchaus turbulent waren. Leider … sieht es mit dem Schreiben nicht so turbulent aus. Simon mag sich aktuell nicht bewegen. Er sitzt an einem einsamen Ort und weigert sich den Weg zu gehen, den ich f\u00fcr ihn vorgesehen habe.
\nLeider kann ich auch die Bluthunde nicht auf euch los lassen, da ich mir das Lektorat schlichtweg nicht leisten kann. Aber das kriegen wir alles irgendwie hin. Ich glaube an mich als Autor und als Mensch.
\nBesorgt euch nun bei diese Affenhitze etwas k\u00fchles zu trinken und genie\u00dft die Zeit.
\nYour Gerry<\/p>\n

\n

English version:
\nHey Pups,
\nmy last blog was published two months ago. In this timespan, some things going on in my petplay life.
\nMy former petplaypartner is no piece of my life anymore. A golden cage is enjoyable shortly but as the time goes on it’s horrible. I was teached this lesson really fast. Many, sometimes hurtable, words were written and then we began to ignore each other. One side tried to keep an illusion. The other side lived his life further and learned something new. And how i learned new things.
\n\"\"When we try to repair our friendship, Finn (my bff) and I realized that we are more than friends. And now we are in a happy relationship although we denied it it the early phase.
\nWe match in many things so perfectly. But we already realized this in the eight years of friendship. Yes we have our quirks which annoy the other one. But we can handle this!
\nWe still think about the circumstances of the beginning of our relationship.
\nA significant part is contributed to my former petplay partner. Not necessarily in a good way, but I’m somehow grateful to him.
\nAnyway. We’re happy and it feels so good that I’ve found petplayer and human in one wonderful partner who is really important for both of my sides.
\nShortly before this relationship begun I’ve found a cute little pack. We’ve encounted wonderful player for it.
\nMy partner Finn who is available for me everytime.\"\"
\nThe cute and sometimes a bit overexcited Gormi.
\nThe sweet Nala who can shout out loud if she has to.
\nThe ultra fluffy Nebaka aka Akeban. Soooo fluffy.
\nAnd last but not least the beautiful Fitch who acts sometimes thoughtless.
\nEveryone of them ist unique and I’m very proud that they joined my pack and have so much fun with each other. But more pawesome is that they help each other if someone isn’t happy and needs someone to talk or to get a bit upset with. That’s so fantastic.
\nYou see that the last months were turbulent. Sadly… not with my writing. Simon won’t move at the moment. He’s sitting in a lonely place and refuses to move the way I intended to him.
\nUnfortunately I can’t publish the Bloodhounds. I just can’t efford the correcture. And this book needs one. But I think we can beat it. I believe in me as an author and human.
\nTook some cold drinks in these hot days, cool down and enjoy your time.
\nYour Gerry<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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