{"id":11016,"date":"2024-01-01T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-01T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/?p=11016"},"modified":"2026-01-04T18:55:51","modified_gmt":"2026-01-04T17:55:51","slug":"ar-0-awareness-respect-gerry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ar-0-awareness-respect-gerry\/","title":{"rendered":"A&#038;R &#8211; 0: AWARENESS &#038; RESPECT (Gerry)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"11016\" class=\"elementor elementor-11016\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b250d0b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b250d0b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-50a2c5c\" data-id=\"50a2c5c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6dd089 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e6dd089\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Click <a href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ar-0-awareness-respect-gerry\/#formular\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a> Click here to go to the form directly.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f97bad elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"5f97bad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/0-Start-Trenner-2.png\" title=\"\" alt=\"Das Awareness &amp; Respect logo. Links davon steht &quot;START&quot;, rechts davon von wem es ist und das entsprechende Gesicht.\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-07c5b61 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"07c5b61\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tI wish all readers (and everyone else, of course) a successful and healthy New Year. And with the New Year, as usual, I often have new ideas. And in recent years, I have been able to implement all of them, as far as they concerned the blog (GERRY365, ANGST 1 and 2, Polywoche, special Wuffel, etc.). Some of them were spontaneous decisions, others were planned. And this year, I would like to present a new mammoth project to you. But this time it's not for you, but, and this is the crux of the matter, WITH YOU!\n<h5><font color=\"#F607B8\">Huh? For what is this?<\/font><\/h5>\nThe aim is to make my blog available to every member of the pet player, fetish and queer community so that you can tell your stories. But not just any stories, of course, because let's be honest: no one cares what happened in the next darkroom... Well, okay. Maybe they do. But that's not what this is about. On the contrary. Regular readers know that I have dealt with a lot of the rubbish in the community. People have come to me, complained about their suffering, or I have observed suffering and reported on it. Over time, I have been able to reach people with advice and information where it matters. In the brain. I mean in the head. But this year, I want to do things a little differently. With you. And to do that, I want to read and publish your stories.\n<h5><font color=\"#F607B8\">Which kind of stories?<\/font><\/h5>\nThe title of the project is \u2018AWARENESS &amp; RESPECT\u2019. It's about your feelings on a wide range of topics. About your experiences that you can share with the world. About what may have been weighing on your mind for years, but you haven't dared to put into words until now. I have read many short stories on Instagram over the last few years, or experienced them myself. Stories that left me speechless. Stories that made me angry. Or stories that brought tears to my eyes. This project deals with the following topics, which come up again and again in the pet play, fetish and queer communities (PLEASE NOTE: The list may be expanded during the course of the project):\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-323c41f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"323c41f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-53a16b7\" data-id=\"53a16b7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-05c873c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"05c873c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-819722f\" data-id=\"819722f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-843213e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"843213e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Psych Illness<\/li><li>Respectlessness<\/li><li>Questionable things that have caused you discomfort<\/li><li>Verbal \/ Psych \/ Physical abuse<\/li><li>be marginalised<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-8d66418\" data-id=\"8d66418\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39c1e46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"39c1e46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Discrimination\/shaming of any kind (kink, gear, age, body, etc.)<\/li><li>Disabilities<\/li><li>Depressions<\/li><li>Physical illness<\/li><li>Not being taken seriously<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a720f3b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a720f3b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2ef62a2\" data-id=\"2ef62a2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15aaccb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"15aaccb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tStrictly speaking, anything that makes you feel unwelcome or like you don't belong within the above-mentioned communities. Anything that made you feel like you might be out of place. Whether it happened recently or ten years ago. Whether you experienced it yourself or just witnessed it. I, and certainly many others, would like to know how you feel and perhaps also how you have solved these problems for yourself or for others. I would like to make this now huge blog available to anyone who is interested in doing just that: revealing themselves and showing: \u2018I am here. And this is how I feel.\u2019 But of course, a project like this also needs ...\n<h5><span style=\"color: #f607b8;\">Guidelines<\/span><\/h5>\nThe text you submit, which you can send via the contact form at the end of this post, must of course comply with certain guidelines and rules. I do not want my blog to be misused:\n<ul>\n \t<li>No outcalling\n<ul>\n \t<li>It is not desirable for the names of perpetrators who may have bullied or discriminated against others to be made public.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n \t<li>No person describings\n<ul>\n \t<li>Look above<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n \t<li>No NSFW content<\/li>\n \t<li>Your text should contain a minimum of 300 words.\n<ul>\n \t<li>With less, it may happen that the feeling you want to convey does not come across.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n \t<li>Each person may submit as many stories as they wish. However, only one story per topic (e.g. one story on kinkshaming, one on age shaming, and so on).\n<ul>\n \t<li>If anyone thinks that there should be two stories on the same topic by the same person, that person is of course welcome to write to me and we will see how we can resolve the issue.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n \t<li>Even if a topic has already been covered (e.g. autism in the community), but someone else would like to write something about it, they are very welcome to do so.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nEveryone perceives situations and actions differently. Therefore, it is highly desirable for several people to contribute a story on a particular topic.\n<h5><span style=\"color: #f607b8;\">The form and the consequences<\/span><\/h5>\nAs mentioned above, you will find the form at the end of this blog. It contains the following fields and explains why they are required. Any data marked with \u2018DP\u2019 will not be published or stored outside of the intended purpose:\n<ul>\n \t<li>Name (who are you) (mandatory) (DP) Naturally, I want to know whose story I am publishing.<\/li>\n \t<li>Email address (mandatory) (DP) Of course, I also need to be able to communicate with you.<\/li>\n \t<li>Would you like your story to be published anonymously? (Yes\/No) (mandatory) This is particularly important, as I want to protect your privacy.<\/li>\n \t<li>If no: Under what name should the story be published? (Optional, but should be filled in if you select \u2018no\u2019 for anonymity.)<\/li>\n \t<li>Would you like to provide me with a photo for the topic starter? (Optional) This depends, of course, on whether you want to remain anonymous or not. If so, then this question is obviously absurd. I need the image for the post starter, as you can see in the example above this post.<\/li>\n \t<li>Your story (mandatory) You can find the input field for your story here<\/li>\n \t<li>Important notes (mandatory) You must agree to these notes in order to submit your story. They are as follows.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<blockquote>\n<ul>\n \t<font color=\"pink\"><li>You are aware that this is not a self-help project. All tips and advice from me or in the comments are provided to the best of the respective author's knowledge and belief.<\/li>\n \t<li>You confirm that your story is true.<\/li>\n \t<li>Your data will only be used within the scope of the AWARENESS &amp; RESPECT project, anonymised if you wish.<\/li>\n \t<li>Data transfer (personal data and email addresses) to third parties is completely excluded.<\/li>\n \t<li>Once your story has been published, it cannot be reclaimed at any time. Subsequent deletion is also possible.<\/li>\n \t<li>You have no right, and I have no obligation, to publish your story.<\/li>\n \t<li>Eine Nachtr\u00e4gliche Anonymisierung der pers\u00f6nlichen Daten (Name, Foto) ist jederzeit m\u00f6glich. Bitte nutze daf\u00fcr das Kontakt formular auf der Take My Hand Startseite.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n<ul><\/font>\n \t<li>GDPR \u2013 Declaration (mandatory) Because I have to.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nAnd yes, I know that there are a lot of mandatory fields. But on the one hand, I need to be able to work with the information, and on the other hand, I also need to provide security for both sides so that both sides know as precisely as possible what their rights are and what they are not. Once you have submitted your story, I will check whether it complies with the guidelines. If you have selected the photo option, you will receive a message from me so that you can send me the photo. I will then correct the text as best I can to remove any obvious and embarrassing mistakes. I don't want any of you to be ridiculed here. If I have to make major changes (due to necessary censorship), I will contact you again before publication. I will also share my thoughts on each contribution. How did I feel when I read it? What would I like to add or criticise? How can I incorporate a helpful influence? It is also good to note that there will be a separator separating the story from my influence. The separator will also change in the coming weeks.\n<h5><span style=\"color: #f607b8;\">Phew... That was a lot.<\/span><\/h5>\nYes, I suppose so. And you can start filling out the form right away. As soon as I can, there will be an overview page, and the posts that belong to A&amp;R will also get a design that matches the project logo, of course. I just can't adjust it right now. I really want to create a small platform, at least for a year, where you can reveal yourselves. Whether anonymously or by showing your \u201cface\u201d. Every post will be shared accordingly, and that's where you come in again: even if you don't submit a story, you can help by sharing this post. The following posts also need your help to reach a larger group of people. Why?\n<h5><span style=\"color: #f607b8;\">I have a goal<\/span><\/h5>\nThe aim of this project is to raise awareness of how different we humans are. What may be a trifling matter for one person can be a pure nightmare for another. The choice of colours is also deliberate: the colours of the project logo are intended to show that there is more to situational perception than just black and white. There are countless shades of grey in between, which are also important. Every person should be important. That is what the stories should show in the end. And if I can persuade just a small handful of people to question their behaviour, to overcome their inhibitions and stand up for themselves or others, or even if I can get just one person to feel a little remorse for things they have done in the past, this project will have achieved its goal. I myself would also like to grow from your stories. No one is perfect. No one has a clean slate. No one is always doing well. I want to learn from you. I want us to reflect on the community together and, paw in paw, make our communities a little more welcoming, liveable and fun. Let's make our communities an even more liveable aspect of our lives and ensure that problems have a common enemy: US! Yours, Gerry P.S.: If you have any questions, feel free to ask them in the comments section below.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d43e4cc elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"d43e4cc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"formular\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f94ba84 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f94ba84\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/awareness-respect\/\">Zur\u00fcck zur Projekt\u00fcbersicht<\/a><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc0fb99 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc0fb99\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">A&amp;R and Take My Hand have been merged on <a href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/take-my-hand-awareness-respect\/\"><font color=\"ff00b7\">this page<\/font><\/a> .You can also find the form there<\/h5>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Klicke hier um direkt zum Formular zu kommen. 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