{"id":12408,"date":"2025-12-12T18:44:09","date_gmt":"2025-12-12T17:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/?page_id=12408"},"modified":"2025-12-12T18:48:14","modified_gmt":"2025-12-12T17:48:14","slug":"superbia","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/obscuritas\/superbia\/","title":{"rendered":"Superbia"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Superbia is not a grand theatrical declaration of \u2018I am better than you,\u2019 but often much more mundane: the constant building of walls around oneself so that others cannot see who one really is.<\/p>

Arrogance is a reaction, not an origin. It is a mechanism that arises when vulnerability becomes dangerous. When closeness means losing control. When one has learned that weakness will be exploited. Then superiority becomes a protective shield.<\/p>

Superbia means: \u2018I keep my distance by placing myself above everything else.\u2019 It appears strong on the outside, but is fragile on the inside.<\/p>

This category captures all those moments: situations in which distance seemed more important than connection. Decisions made less out of arrogance than out of self-protection.<\/p>

The texts here are not embarrassing or remorseful, but sober. The aim is to make the mechanism visible without justifying it.<\/p>

Superbia is a space to analyse when pride became a substitute \u2014 for real security, for recognition, for the feeling of being in control.<\/p>

This is not about feeling guilty, but about understanding: arrogance is the mask you wear when you don't dare to be vulnerable. Those who understand Superbia recognise how much fear lies behind it \u2014 and why we sometimes end up there anyway.<\/p>

These articles provide clarity on how this protection works, when it takes effect and why it influences relationships, self-image and decisions in the long term. Superbia is an honest look at our own reflex to appear \u201chigher\u201d in order to avoid being hurt more deeply.<\/p>

I work with it because I know the quiet arrogance that emerges when you constantly overburden yourself and then believe you know better. For me, pride is less about superiority and more about a protective armour. I want to understand when it kicks in \u2014 so that I can remain honest instead of hiding behind a fa\u00e7ade.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Superbia – Hochmut Superbia ist kein gro\u00dfes theatralisches Hauchen von \u201eIch bin besser als ihr\u201c, sondern oft viel banaler: das […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":12359,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"no-sidebar","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"full-width-container","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"disabled","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"disabled","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-12408","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12408","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12408"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12408\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12412,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12408\/revisions\/12412"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12359"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12408"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}