{"id":12391,"date":"2025-12-12T18:32:01","date_gmt":"2025-12-12T17:32:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/?page_id=12391"},"modified":"2025-12-12T18:38:21","modified_gmt":"2025-12-12T17:38:21","slug":"ira","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/obscuritas\/ira\/","title":{"rendered":"Ira"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"12391\" class=\"elementor elementor-12391\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-508b2df e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"508b2df\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f0f9796 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f0f9796\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Ira - Wrath<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a20bbfc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a20bbfc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Anger is not loud shouting, but a build-up. A pressure vessel of sensory overload, excessive demands, disappointed expectations and the feeling of not being heard.<\/p><p>Ira describes the moments when you could no longer react subtly because something remained unsaid for too long.<\/p><p>It is an honest look at anger as a protective mechanism: when boundaries are recognised too late, when you swallow too often and your body eventually takes over.<\/p><p>This category is not about justification, but about analysis: where did the anger come from? What lay beneath it? Why was irritation often only the visible tip of a much deeper feeling?<\/p><p>Ira highlights situations in which helplessness, exhaustion or hurt have turned into harshness. Anger was never the source, but the final stage of a process.<\/p><p>These texts reveal how many layers were previously ignored \u2014 and how anger actually functions as a warning signal.<\/p><p>It's about understanding the mechanism: anger protects because it creates distance when the psyche is overwhelmed. But it also hurts when it comes out uncontrollably.<\/p><p>Ira is not a moral judgement, but a space in which you describe clearly and without beating around the bush how anger feels, why it comes and what it prevents or makes possible.<br data-start=\"6225\" data-end=\"6228\" \/>It is a sober record of situations in which the stress has exceeded one's capacity.<\/p><p>I look at it because my anger is usually silent, but destructive. It consumes energy without being visible. I want to learn to release it before it corrodes me from within.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43f220d elementor-widget-divider--view-line_text elementor-widget-divider--element-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"43f220d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-divider__text elementor-divider__element\">\n\t\t\t\tPosts\t\t\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4383a3f elementor-grid-4 elementor-posts--align-left elementor-grid-tablet-2 elementor-grid-mobile-1 elementor-posts--thumbnail-top elementor-card-shadow-yes elementor-posts__hover-gradient load-more-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-posts\" data-id=\"4383a3f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;cards_columns&quot;:&quot;4&quot;,&quot;pagination_type&quot;:&quot;load_more_on_click&quot;,&quot;cards_columns_tablet&quot;:&quot;2&quot;,&quot;cards_columns_mobile&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;cards_row_gap&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:35,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;cards_row_gap_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;cards_row_gap_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;load_more_spinner&quot;:{&quot;value&quot;:&quot;fas fa-spinner&quot;,&quot;library&quot;:&quot;fa-solid&quot;}}\" data-widget_type=\"posts.cards\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-posts-container elementor-posts elementor-posts--skin-cards elementor-grid\" role=\"list\">\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-13562 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-ira category-vices\" role=\"listitem\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ira-1-leben-zu-dritt\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2-300x300.webp\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-13540\" alt=\"Titelbild eines Beitrags\" srcset=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2-12x12.webp 12w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/D1_2-2.webp 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ira-1-leben-zu-dritt\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tIra #1 \u2013 Living as Three\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>Vorbemerkung Zwei kurze Anmerkungen, um Missverst\u00e4ndnisse zu vermeiden: Ich empfinde polyamor und lebe derzeit mit meinem Partner und dessen Ehemann<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__read-more-wrapper\">\n\t\t\n\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ira-1-leben-zu-dritt\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Ira #1 \u2013 Leben zu dritt\" tabindex=\"-1\" >\n\t\t\tWeiterlesen \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__meta-data\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-date\">\n\t\t\t28. January 2026\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-avatar\">\n\t\t\tNo Comments\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-14018 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-ira category-vices\" role=\"listitem\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ira-2-farbwechsel\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2-300x300.webp\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-14020\" alt=\"Titelbild eines Beitrags\" srcset=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2-12x12.webp 12w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_ir2.webp 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ira-2-farbwechsel\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tIra #2 \u2013 Color Shift\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>Hinweis \u201eFarbwechsel\u201c ist Teil meiner Ira-Reihe und erscheint bewusst als #Ira 2. #Ira 1 folgt wie geplant am 28.01. Aufgrund<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__read-more-wrapper\">\n\t\t\n\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/ira-2-farbwechsel\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Ira #2 &#8211; Farbwechsel\" tabindex=\"-1\" >\n\t\t\tWeiterlesen \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__meta-data\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-date\">\n\t\t\t15. 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Ein Druckbeh\u00e4lter aus Reiz\u00fcberflutung, \u00dcberforderung, entt\u00e4uschten Erwartungen und dem [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":12359,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"no-sidebar","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"full-width-container","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"disabled","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"disabled","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-12391","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12391"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12391\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12402,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12391\/revisions\/12402"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12359"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}