{"id":12340,"date":"2025-12-12T18:03:37","date_gmt":"2025-12-12T17:03:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/?page_id=12340"},"modified":"2026-01-05T04:19:50","modified_gmt":"2026-01-05T03:19:50","slug":"spes","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/lux\/spes\/","title":{"rendered":"Patientia"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"12340\" class=\"elementor elementor-12340\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9632516 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"9632516\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1999b2f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1999b2f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Patientia - Patience<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-df8680d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"df8680d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"159\">Patientia is not serenity or quiet endurance. It is the conscious endurance of time, tension and uncertainty without giving up internally.<\/p><p data-start=\"161\" data-end=\"388\">Patience here does not mean doing nothing. It means not reacting rashly, not destroying what actually needs time out of overwhelm. Patientia endures contradictions without immediately crying out for resolution.<\/p><p data-start=\"390\" data-end=\"559\">This virtue is inconspicuous. It makes no noise, generates no euphoria. It works in the background, where processes are slow and progress is not visible.<\/p><p data-start=\"561\" data-end=\"768\">Patientia protects against rash decisions, against self-sabotage out of frustration, against the urge to change or end everything immediately. It is the counterweight to internal pressure and external acceleration.<\/p><p data-start=\"770\" data-end=\"885\">Patience does not say, \u2018It'll be alright.\u2019<br data-start=\"809\" data-end=\"812\" \/>It says, \u2018I remain capable of acting, even if things are not alright right now.\u2019<\/p><p data-start=\"887\" data-end=\"950\">Patientia is not a feeling. It is an attitude towards time.<\/p><p data-start=\"952\" data-end=\"1188\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">I deal with it because I often lack patience \u2013 with myself, with others, with developments. And because impatience is rarely productive for me. Patientia forces me not to give up just because things are slow, tough or unpleasant.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5173f62 elementor-widget-divider--view-line_text elementor-widget-divider--element-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"5173f62\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-divider__text elementor-divider__element\">\n\t\t\t\tPosts\t\t\t\t<\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-09dbc85 elementor-grid-4 elementor-posts--align-left elementor-grid-tablet-2 elementor-grid-mobile-1 elementor-posts--thumbnail-top elementor-card-shadow-yes elementor-posts__hover-gradient load-more-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-posts\" data-id=\"09dbc85\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;cards_columns&quot;:&quot;4&quot;,&quot;pagination_type&quot;:&quot;load_more_on_click&quot;,&quot;cards_columns_tablet&quot;:&quot;2&quot;,&quot;cards_columns_mobile&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;cards_row_gap&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:35,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;cards_row_gap_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;cards_row_gap_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;load_more_spinner&quot;:{&quot;value&quot;:&quot;fas fa-spinner&quot;,&quot;library&quot;:&quot;fa-solid&quot;}}\" data-widget_type=\"posts.cards\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-posts-container elementor-posts elementor-posts--skin-cards elementor-grid\" role=\"list\">\n\t\t\t\t<article class=\"elementor-post elementor-grid-item post-13578 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-patientia category-virtutes\" role=\"listitem\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__card\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail__link\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/spes-1-hoffnung-auf-liebe-und-dann-doch-nicht\/\" tabindex=\"-1\" ><div class=\"elementor-post__thumbnail\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1-300x300.webp\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-13976\" alt=\"Titelbild eines Beitrags\" srcset=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1-12x12.webp 12w, https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/D_Pa1.webp 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/div><\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__text\">\n\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-post__title\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/spes-1-hoffnung-auf-liebe-und-dann-doch-nicht\/\" >\n\t\t\t\tPatientia #1 \u2013 Hope for Love \u2013 And Then Not\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__excerpt\">\n\t\t\t<p>Polyamorie und gesellschaftliche Zuschreibungen Als polyamor empfindender Mensch ist man oft mit Dingen konfrontiert wie: \u201eDu willst ja nur einen<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__read-more-wrapper\">\n\t\t\n\t\t<a class=\"elementor-post__read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/g-wie-gerry.de\/en\/spes-1-hoffnung-auf-liebe-und-dann-doch-nicht\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Patientia #1 \u2013 Hoffnung auf Liebe \u2013 Und dann doch nicht\" tabindex=\"-1\" >\n\t\t\tWeiterlesen \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post__meta-data\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-date\">\n\t\t\t22. 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