RECENTI
These are the last 5 blogs of all categories.
WELCOME TO THE LIGHT
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LUX refers to the forces that stabilise, clarify and align the inner state. It is not about moral goodness, but about functional qualities that make life more useful. The VIRTUTES (virtues) – Prudentia (wisdom), Lustitia (justice), Fortitudo (strength), Temperantia (temperance) Fide (faith), Spes (hope) and Caritas (charity/love) – are not meant here as ideal images, but as attitudes that are lived out in real life and manifest themselves in everyday situations: through decisions, boundaries, changes of perspective, self-control or the conscious endurance of ambivalence.
In this context, light does not mean ‘bright’ or “pure”, but rather ‘conscious’. LUX stands for the active attempt not to get lost in one's own chaos. For the willingness to reflect on one's own patterns and still move forward, even if it is not pleasant. LUX is a hard-working space – less glory, more consistent sorting.
It is the part within us that seeks orientation and refuses to be satisfied with merely reacting. The part that doesn’t just swallow, but understands. That doesn’t act blindly, but examines. LUX thus represents all actions that build strength instead of dissipating it, that create clarity instead of clouding it, and that remain sustainable in the long term—even when they are uncomfortable.
WELCOME TO THE DARKNESS
OBSCURITAS encompasses the tensions, distortions and destructive impulses that every human being is familiar with – regardless of how reflective they are. Here lie the seven classic vices: Superbia (pride), Invidia (envy), Avaritia (greed), Ira (wrath), Luxuria (lust), Acedia (sloth) and Gula (gluttony). The name ‘darkness’ does not refer to moral failure, but rather to the field in which inner conflicts become unvarnishedly visible. It is the space in which contradictions, overreactions, self-sabotage and emotional overload have their place.
Darkness is not an enemy, but rather an honest assessment of the situation. OBSCURITAS shows us where we are vulnerable, where we fall back into old patterns or where we lose control. It is the part of us that reacts unfiltered, before we even think about it. The part that is driven by fear, deprivation, hurt, overcompensation or inner exhaustion.
This area does not exist to be condemned, but to be understood. OBSCURITAS is the raw zone where one's own weaknesses and shadows become visible – and only then can they be addressed. Those who ignore this space remain blind. Those who acknowledge it gain room for manoeuvre.
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GERRY
Here you’ll find my profile with various information about me and my background. The “Intimate” section should only be viewed if sexual details don’t bother you. Of course, I take no responsibility for any “too much information” moments.
- Age 39
- Height approx 182 cm
- Job Unemployed (Unfortunately)
- Hobbys: Writing, Gaming, TV-Shows and Movies, Ride a bike
- "Special": Fetishist / Kinkster, Neurodivergent
- Living in: Hesse
- Weight: You don't ask an alpha that, you ask him to lie on top of you.
- Relationship: In a polycule, no main partner
- Roles in life: Community-Person, Mediator, Justice advocate
- Education: Secondary school diploma (Mittlere Reife)
- Vocational Training: Wholesale and Export Clerk (specialization: Wholesale) – formally completed, but no longer practiced for many years
- Work Experience: Customer Service Representative – learned a lot, endured a lot, no return to previous career path
- Further Training 2024: Specialist in Diversity Management (IHK)
- Further Training 2024-2025: Diversity Manager Certificate – University of Hamburg
- Speaker: 2024 and 2025: CSD Main-Taunus-Kreis
- Mediator: Thorugh blog-projects TMH-AR
- Contestant: Mr. Fetish Hessen - Election 2025 (3rd runner up)
- Organisation: Organizer of the charity flea market in collaboration with the FLC-FrankfurtInformations for the charitiy flea market: Here’s a link
Strength
Weaknesses
- Self-analysis
- Conceptual thinking
- Direct but fair
- Persistent
- Deep diver rather than surface swimmer (metaphorical)
- Neurodivergent
- Overly self-critical
- Difficulty with closeness
- Unpredictable energy levels
- Overthinker extraordinaire
- Role: Active
- Position: Dom/Alpha/Top
- Banana: Just ask?
- Target: Generally younger than me, blond, blue-eyed, with beard and glasses (exceptions apply)
- Secret Desires: To f*** a muscle pup, DP (G), experience more sexual pleasure
- INFO: G=Giver, T=Taker, V = Versa
- Fetishes (Strong): Petplay (V), Neoprene (V), Daddy (G)
- Fetishes (Medium): Jeans (T), Leather (V), Worker (V), Soft SM (G)
- Fetishes (Weak): Latex (V), PVC (G), Sneaks (G), Socks (G)
- Kinks: GS (G), BJ (V under conditions), Feet (G), Musk (G)
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